Long ago I heard a phrase that has stuck with me for many, many years. We are all spiritual beings sharing a human experience. Before I go any further, I want to stress that in the context of this phrase, the word “spiritual” does not have a religious meaning but rather refers to the non-physical. As I read and learn more from the Teachings of Abraham, I begin to understand just why this particular phrase struck a chord with me and why it has always been easy for me to believe.
If you follow the Teachings of Abraham, then you know that we are all an extension of our higher selves that exist in the non-physical. Our non-physical, higher selves wanted the experience of life in the physical, human form and so, here we are. Our purpose here is to experience the wonderful diversity of this world and to determine that which will bring us joy and happiness. We didn’t come forth to change anything and we didn’t come forth with the intention of conforming others to our beliefs. We simply came forth to discover, learn, and live joyful lives.
I suppose some would say having a handbook at the very beginning explaining of all this would be nice, but that would really defeat the purpose of discovery. If we had a handbook telling us how to think, what to believe, and how to act, then we would not have the freedom to choose and that is what really makes us who we are – the freedom to choose our beliefs and our own paths in life.
So we come into this life with no prior knowledge of any past lives or of our constant connection to our higher selves. We come into this life with a clean canvas that we fill with the discoveries we make along the way. And even though throughout the early years of our lives we are influenced by our parents and their beliefs, we will reach a point where we are able to think on our own and form our own beliefs. And regardless of how diverse those beliefs are among the people of this planet, each of those beliefs is true for the person who holds them. We can fight against this fact or we can embrace the wonderful diversity of this world and remember that each and every one of us is on our own personal journey of discovery and growth.
Accepting diversity has always come easy to me but I had a lesson earlier in my life that truly put my acceptance to the test. I was raised in the Catholic Church and both of my children were baptized Catholic. While my beliefs today differ from those I held when my children were young, I nevertheless passed on to my children the beliefs I held at the time and while they were young, we shared the same beliefs. However, as they began to grow older, they began to develop their own beliefs that were not the same as those I held at the time. In the beginning it caused me a bit of distress but they were my children and nothing could change the fact that I loved them dearly. As time went on, I came to the realization that they are individuals on their own personal journeys and they had to discover and learn what feels right for them. Rather than push against their beliefs and try to influence them with my own, I found that letting them go to make their own discoveries was a very rewarding experience.
When my children were young, I helped them build strong foundations by teaching them to understand, accept, and find joy in the diversity of this world. Today they are two of the most wonderful, caring people I know. And even though the three of us have completely different religious beliefs, I realize now that it was my own acceptance of the diversity of this world that allowed me to stand back and give my children the space they needed to follow their own paths.
It really is a liberating experience when you allow others to live the lives they came here to live and accept that even though there is much diversity in this world, it is good because it gives us choices from which to choose. And life is so much easier when we remember that even though we are all here on our own personal journeys, we are sharing this human experience together.